Dating in college can be quite the adventure. You’re meeting attractive and interesting people around every corner, getting asked out and asking more people out than you ever would’ve in high school, all the while taking a full course load and running around with your friends. The following tips will help you to keep it all straight as you embark on the whirlwind that is college dating.

Explore your options without hurting people. Dating a few different people at once is fun and quite common in college. Just be sure that the people you’re dating are aware that the relationship isn’t exclusive.
Step2
Realize that when someone asks you out, this in no way means that the two of you are boyfriend and girlfriend, contrary to the rules of high school dating. Hanging out with someone for the night is just a way of testing out the waters and does not constitute a serious commitment.
Step3
Know the person you’re dating before you put yourself in a compromising situation. This goes for the ladies especially. Just because you met a really cute guy at a friend’s party doesn’t mean that he’s a nice guy who you should go home with.
Step4
Honor your friendships. If one of your best friends just went out with someone who is now going after you, talk to you friend before making a move. The general rule is that your friends’ recent dates or hook-ups are probably off limits to you for at least a little while.
Step5
Keep your priorities straight. While dating in college can definitely be a large part of your undergraduate experience, make sure to go to class, do your work and hang out with your friends as well.

You don’t have to be young and cute to be attractive, nor do you have to flaunt your physical attributes. As you age, you will find that more people equate “mature” with “sexy” and “sophisticated.” This article discusses way in which you can be sexy while still being mature.

Leave something to the imagination and dress conservatively. Instead of trying to squeeze into that mini-skirt from two decades ago, opt for a more tailored look. Try slim fitting pants paired with a feminine blouse and matching flats or heels. Finish the look with a strand of pearls and a chic handbag.

Keep yourself looking polished. A sexy woman understands the allure of looking complete without appearing overdone. Skip that thick, caked-on makeup and go for a more natural look, instead. Wear your hair in a style that flatters your face and is easy to maintain. Take good care of your hands and nails.

Have confidence in yourself and act intelligently. Many men find mature women sexy because they carry themselves with pride. Instead of relying on their body to sell themselves, women who are mature draw upon their high self-esteem and intelligence to garner a man’s attention.

Be nice, but be genuine. Sometimes self-confidence can be too sexy and scare away potential suitors. Many men want a sexy and mature woman who is also approachable. Act kind and considerate towards others. Melt his heart by being sexy and compassionate.

Act refined. Remember to use your manners when in social situations and control yourself.

You want to hang out with your new sweetie. Your parents want you to get good grades. It can be hard to do both, but it’s not impossible!

When your significant other (SO) has work, class, or wants to spend time with his/her friends, bust out your homework! You can be productive and keep yourself from missing him/her at the same time.

Have a study date. You can both work on your homework side-by-side, or else you can do your homework while your SO reads a book. Got an exam coming up? Your SO can quiz you. It’s a lot easier to remember what “anaerobic” means when your sweetie explains it than when your professor drones on about it.

If necessary, prioritize. Take a full day to concentrate on that portfolio you’ve been putting off all semester, and reward yourselves with dinner and a movie the night after you turn it in. Your sweetie will be there on Monday, but your chances for getting an A won’t be.

Many of us go through our lives doing a job that we perhaps do not hate completely, but one that does not fulfill our ultimate goals or provide an outlet for our creativity. There are many reasons why you get stuck in whatever profession you’re in. Maybe you studied Law and became a lawyer only to find that in mid-life you were merely providing a paycheck for your family - but not really filling your inner need for growth and personal enrichment. Or perhaps you are many of the support personnel that found a “safe” job under the corporate umbrella. It was a fine job providing good benefits and a steady paycheck while the kids were young, or while your spouse was finishing up graduate school, but maybe - lately, you’ve come to realize that during all the struggle someone was lost in the process over the years, YOU! Well baby it’s time. Read my article and get on your way to doing something you love or enjoy. Gone are days when you must stick to the career path you set out on. Maybe you want to pick up some of those old dreams and find a little something for yourself in the process!

What do you want to do? This is the first question you must ask yourself. Many things may have changed since you first had an idea for a career. If you were thing you’d become an expert at WANG software..it’s time to revisit your dream. Do the research. Figure out what kind of career you’d like.

Make a plan. After you figure out what it is you want to do. Create the plan. BE as creative you like. Write it down. Are you going to go to school? Are you going to take some classes? Are there books you need to read? What kind of preparation will you require in order to do the job? Don’t skip any steps. It’s important to know all the perameters before you set forth on your path.

Give yourself a reality check. Realize your own limitations. Nothing is more embarrassing than going beyond your prime. For example, there was a very rich woman who decided late in life to become a ballerina. She used her money, power and influence to assemble some of the world’s best dancers to train her. She bought theatres to perform in and worked day and night. But she was in her fifties, and no matter how good she became, she’d never be the 16 year old prima ballerina. They laughed behind her back as the swallowed up her money. It’s a very sad story. The arts may have benefited from her donations, but she lost out in the end. Do yourself a favor, don’t be the poster child for a dream that requires youth, vim and vigor. Choose a path you can follow. Do not set yourself up to fail. A good example could be an accountant who has always wanted to run their own flower shop. With enough planning and prepartion, this is a feat that can be accomplished. Another dream might be to own your own business. This requires hard work, but can be done, if it’s in a field you know something about and you are willing to do the homework.

What are you willing to sacrifice? This is a hard question. I know many people who are working as administrative assistants and making excellent money. They live in fine homes and some even own a few investment properties. Sometimes in order to gain something, we must give up something. For some of us, it means a healthy paycheck. But as one philosopher once said, “you can not put a price on happiness.” If you are going home from work miserable every night and dreading going in to the office every day, it might be a sacrifice you are willing to risk. An unhappy life can lead to an early death - and then who prospers from it, your off-spring, your relatives? Now is the time for you! So figure out if you can cut your costs, or whatever this present job brings in order to do something for yourself.

Once the plan is in place-step outside your box and begin! You’ve done the homework, figured out how to manage on your income, housing, whatever. You know which kind of education to take. Now is the time to begin your plan. It could start with something as simple as one night course a week. In this way you could keep your “day job” and still pursue your dream job. Stay away from abandoning everything all at once. It may prove to be to great a shock to your system. Take it slow -take baby steps. You can add momentum as you go along. If your dream is to become a night club singer, there is no reason why you can’t work it into your schedule, by maybe taking some voice lessons practicing and turning off the television and pehaps starting at a karaoke club in order to getyour confidence up. Television robs many of us of our dreams. If you have a dream in your head to change your career, keep it set out in front of you and work until you drop to get it. The secret to fulfilling your dream and becoming a success is this, “you have to want it badly enough.” Work hard and follow your plan.

It’s your time to shine!

Mother always told me that it is just as easy to fall in love with a person of means, as it is to with someone from the bourgeoise, but what mother didn’t tell me was that, in order to meet them, I have to go where they are

Practically every one of my poorer artist friends is ever so often joking that they maybe should just “give up” waitressing, or working as a shoe shine boy or out and out begging, or playing music on the streets of Manhattan or doing mime, or temping or any of the myriad of things we artists in New York have to do to pay the rent and just Marry a millionaire! It wouldn’t be the first time that the marriage between a person of the arts and a ..shall we say, benefactor actually occurred. While I don’t think any one of them were serious about marrying Cecil B. De Mille types or the like - the idea can be very appealing. I have had the opportunity not once, but quite a few times to marry that millionaire/billionaire who wanted me..thought I’d complete their life, and if not for my small town upbringing and scruples and out and out stupidity! I might have been able to go for it! But alas, I wouldn’t be writing you now, having to deal with my minions and whatever pet project I happen to be on it..but no good millionairal proposal (if there’s such an expression) lasts for ever, and even the best of them sour like a Hilton incarceration. But the point I am trying to make here is that, if it couldn’t happen for me, and not that I don’t possess that certain je ne sais pas that gets them going, it could happen for you. In this article I should like to tell you how to do this. After reading it, I’d appreciate your comments…and if you do marry, please keep my aspiring novel “Seven Murders In Sussex” in mind, thanks. And here we go, brace yourselves…
FIRST: Determine. One of the very first questions you must answer is, “what kind of millionaire are you interested in? Is it someone in Finance? Are they self-made? Or do they come from, what I like to call, “old money.” This group is my particular favorite, because they tend to have all the money in the world, and seemingly no notion of how they got it, having been born into it and all that jazz. Once you determine who/what kind they are then we can get to the next question…

SECOND: Appearance. Your personal appearance is very important. While it’s not possible for everyone on the planet to look like Marilyn Monroe, or some Hollywood starlet..we must always do our best to try to look good. Now you might have some notion of what you’d have to look like to meet and marry the very very very rich..but let me tell you darlings, put away the faux diamonique and the updo sweeps with rhinestones galore and shy away from those gold lamai cha cha culottes or that prom dress or tux you never got to wear..remember this old adage, “less is more.” I personally think that clean is best. You want to be simple. For men this could mean khakis, a white button down shirt, woven belt, and loafers, for the ladies this could mean a simple shirt dress from l.l. bean or the like, or just a nice cotton floral, nothing too showy, nothing flashy. Remember, it’s not about standing out in the crowd. Quite possibly it is exactly the opposite. But we’ll get to that later. If you have one small piece of nice jewelry or a smart watch, you might like to wear that. Small pearl earrings perhaps might fit the bill, or a good copy of a rolex watch or a small pin that has more significance to your family (perhaps an heirloom) and less about show. This is very important. You can’t catch one if they think you are in pursuit of them for money alone. And I know, you’re thinking, “but without love?” But how can you know if you’ll fall in love with them if you haven’t even met them yet. And let’s face it, the largest denominators in failed marriages these days, meaning the number one reason why couples break up is..you guessed it, money, or lack of it. You don’t have to believe me, you can check it out for yourself. What I’m saying is, don’t pre-judge how a relationship will go just because someone has a hundred or so million. It isn’t right. Everyone deserves a chance, even the very rich.

THIRD: Location. You can’t meet the guy/gal if you aren’t where they are. Now you’re thinking, where do I meet them? Well this will require research. I’m probably going to get into a lot of trouble for telling you this, and letting this particular cat out of the bag, but…every library in the United States can get a copy of The Social Register. In this book is listed the names of people on the register who for the most part are, to put it bluntly, stinking rich. Of course you can also find out who they are through your own means, even the internet. Or if you’d just like a grab bag of millionaires, you could attend any number of art auctions..you could go to some estate sales, you could go to boat shows, whale watching..anything that might interest your perspective. I never tire of art galleries or tennis matches. This is where they are. I’ve even gone to a dog show or two in Tarrytown, or the flea markets of East Hampton, or the shore line, in New Jersey Long Beach Island is famous for harboring the rich. Once you have a good sized list of places where you might find “the one” the next step is meeting them.

I don’t know if this particular situation in my life now is a special thing. But somehow i can also call this special because  of its memories remain and shared, lessons that i learned most most specially of all saying good bye to the person i love.

hhmmm.. story telling galoorrr…. for 3 years and 3 months i am so thankful that God gave this person who tries to understand me even though i act like child and ding thats that people doesn’t like.. He make me feel special and share many things with me..

In those years i commit mistakes and still forgive me and gave me lots of chances… Chances that cannot be count anymore, but now again i did a thing that makes this relationship destroyed, but i can’t do nothing but to accept the consequences  that awaits.

Now I am facing my life alone without him. trying to find my self and put back the things that i needed and was lost. But in spite of everything one thing he promise that gaves so much joy to me…

“i will wait until you find your self again”

and i am hoping for that day… even though it takes months., years still no one can replace him inside of me..

Sperm are the male gamete produced from the germ cell line. The germ cells of the male are called spermatogonia, which oddly means sperm-eggs. Spermatogonia differentiate into spermatocytes in the testes, and it is the spermatocytes that divide by a process called meiosis. Meiosis is a type of cell division that reduces the chromosome number from 46 to 23. For this reason the sperm cells that are produced after meiosis have only half the full number of chromosomes. They carry half of the genetic material needed to make a new organism. Since they only have half the normal number of chromosomes they are referred to as haploid cells as opposed to the normal body cells that are said to be diploid. Some life forms, such as seaweed and ferns, spend a large part of their life in the haploid state and actually have a haploid body as well as a diploid body. Higher animals, including humans, have a life cycle where only a short time is spent in the haploid state and the haploid organism is limited to single cells we call eggs and sperm. In this generalized view of things, the sperm and egg are the haploid phase of the human life cycle.

But DO YOU KNOW that aside from the fact that sperm is the major producer of life it is also the best and most effective in making our face flowless and white. Sperms are also good it is very rich in protein and according to some doctors that human sperm is a very health food…

WHHHAAAATTT????

yes it very safe and a health food.. just like yogurt …

how to apply human sperm as a beauty cream in womans face???

after man’s ejaculation apply the sperms to the face gently pt it in to the whole face… the most effective result is applying it at night. and put the sperm the whole night in to the face and the next morning you can see the beauty effect of one of the most powerful but very little thing on earth.

It’s been months since my father left and find whats best for the family in the other country. This is the first time that my father is far from us, every night my little sister cried when he remembers our father. I must admit it that me too miss him so much..miss all things the bonding, the laugh, the advices, his care and specially when he cooks for us…

It’s not easy to be far from him but we need to scarifies things so that our family will grow and able to do things…

Here are some pictures our family bonding..

Power Of Pain
by Star711
I sat alone another day.
The world was moving all around me,
but it seemed as if my life was in a standstill.
The doctors say its anxiety.
Everyone thinks anxiety means nervousness or fear,
but it is deeper than that.
Anxiety holds you prisoner.
You can’t leave your house.

Ding
Dong
Ding
Dong

The doorbell rings but I can’t answer.
There is too much fear inside.
You can’t answer the phone.

Ring
Ring
Ring

“Telephone for you!” my family yells. I
tell them to say that I will call back, but I won’t.
You can’t eat.

Chomp
Bite
Chew

No, not me. The anxiety
even controls that. All the pain rushes back up with
every little thing I eat.
You can’t go out.

Step
Step
Step

Everyone walking around me, but I can’t move, the
apprehension paralyzes me.
Everyone says, “Be brave. You can do it. You’ll make it out of this.”
But sometimes I wonder if I will.
I try to combat it all, but if I attempt to do anything,
it all starts over again.

Thump
Thump
Thump

My heart beats faster and faster.
I can feel it in my chest.

Beads of sweat
Racing
Falling
Running down my forehead.
All the thoughts swarm in my brain.
The fear picks up.
It is unbearable.
I’m so frightened, but I don’t know what of.
The paranoia sweeps over my body like a giant wave.
Every day I have to fight what seems to be a losing battle.
But then . . . I look outside.
I see the colors.
I see the life.
I see spirit.
I know I can do this.

Hope
Pray
Win